Ashanti and Nelly Welcome Their First Child and Reveal Baby Boy’s Name

Ashanti and Nelly have embraced parenthood together, welcoming their first child, a baby boy named Kareem Kenkaide Hayes. This exciting news was confirmed by a representative who shared with PEOPLE that the baby arrived on July 18, 2024. Both parents expressed their overwhelming joy, stating, “The proud and happy parents are so in love with KK!”

Their relationship has spanned years, beginning in the early 2000s and experiencing a breakup before rekindling their romance in September 2023. Nelly, now 49, reflected on their earlier split during an interview on Boss Moves with Rasheeda, emphasizing how time apart allowed for personal growth. “We both were pretty much doing what we do,” he said, acknowledging that distance can often lead to greater understanding in a relationship.

Ashanti also shared her insights, noting that separation can help individuals see things from each other’s perspectives. The “Dilemma” singer mentioned that defensiveness can arise in relationships, but recognizing these tendencies is crucial in resolving them.

With the birth of Kareem, this marks Ashanti’s first journey into motherhood. In contrast, Nelly is already a father to four children. His family includes Shawn and Sydney Thomas, whom he adopted from his late stepsister, as well as Cornell and Chanelle, from a previous relationship with Channetta Valentine.

Ashanti took to social media to share her thoughts and experiences about becoming a new mom. Posting on Instagram, she revealed her four-week postpartum journey, writing, “Funny how life’s plans aren’t always on time… lol. I’ve been waiting to be a mom for a long time, but nothing could prepare me for EVERYTHING motherhood brings!”

In her heartfelt post, she continued, “This is what postpartum looks like. I’m loving these super cozy @fridamom shorts! I’m so proud of my body for giving me my baby, baby, baby, baby, baby.” Her enthusiasm and pride in her new role resonate strongly in her words and images.

The announcement of their child’s birth comes shortly after rumors circulated that the couple secretly married in December 2023. Despite these speculations, Ashanti expressed her excitement about motherhood in an interview with Essence, stating in April, “Motherhood is something I have looked forward to, and sharing this with my family, fiancé, and loyal fans, who have been so supportive of my career, is an amazing experience.”

Ashanti’s journey into motherhood comes with challenges and joys that many new parents can relate to. The couple appears to be embracing this new chapter enthusiastically, demonstrating their deep commitment to each other and their growing family.

As they navigate this exciting phase in their lives, fans and supporters celebrate alongside them, eager to witness their journey as parents. The bond between Ashanti and Nelly, solidified through years of ups and downs, seems stronger than ever as they take on the responsibilities and joys of parenthood together.