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Expert: Ben Affleck’s Body Language ‘Dramatically Changes’ Around Jennifer Garner

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez are reportedly considering a divorce in 2024. Both stars have experienced high-profile breaks in the past. Affleck and Jennifer Garner separated after a decade of marriage but have maintained a friendship as they co-parent their three children. Recently, they were seen together, seemingly enjoying each other’s company. A body language expert provides insight into the noticeable change in Affleck’s demeanor when he is with Garner versus Lopez.

Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner have remained friends since their marriage ended. They got married in 2005, separated in 2015, and finalized their divorce in 2018. They share three kids and live near each other, making it easier to attend family events as a unified front. In August 2024, the two spent time together before sending their daughter, Violet, to college.

Body language expert Judi James analyzed their interactions for DailyMail.com. She observed that Affleck appeared to be in high spirits around Garner. According to James, Affleck was seemingly “safe-harboring” with his ex-wife and children amid the current marital turbulence with Lopez.

“This is common behavior when there are issues in a second marriage,” James noted. “The first family unit can suddenly seem like a comfortably familiar and non-judgmental refuge.”

Garner, on the other hand, appeared to send out “signals of approval and even pride” towards Affleck. James highlighted that their body language suggested they were like-minded as parents, forming a united bond. The two seemed entirely comfortable and engaged in their conversation, showing a level of subliminal mirroring. Even when the children were distracted, Garner and Affleck continued their relaxed interaction.

Their middle child, Fin, also attended the family dinner. Garner and the kids reportedly looked at Affleck with expressions of pride, warmth, and fondness. James noted that this likely provided the emotional support Affleck needs, leading to a noticeable change in his body language.

Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck leave the Park Hyatt Vendome hotel on October 16, 2012, in Paris | Marc Piasecki/FilmMagic

In contrast, Affleck’s body language around Jennifer Lopez tells a different story. Rumors suggest that Lopez and Affleck may have already signed divorce papers, though they haven’t officially submitted them. In June 2024, body language expert Blanca Cobb commented to Fox News Digital that Affleck and Lopez appeared “cordial,” but not necessarily in love, during Affleck’s son’s basketball game.

“It’s a kiss on the cheek, like when you see a friend. Even his stance, the way his body is angled, is more platonic than romantic,” Cobb explained. “And his feet are in a runner’s pose as if he’s there for a few seconds before he moves on.”

Lopez’s body language seemed “reserved and protective,” according to Cobb. “She looks guarded, holding her purse close to her midsection as if to shield herself psychologically.”

“This physical distance, often a response to relationship issues, can be a source of emotional turmoil, a feeling many of us can relate to,” Cobb added.

Besides his marital issues with Jennifer Lopez, Ben Affleck has been focused on other important matters. A source revealed to People that he is particularly concentrated on sending his 18-year-old daughter, Violet, to Yale. This period has also brought him closer to Garner.

“He’s been very focused on getting Violet ready for move-in,” the source explained. “It’s a huge deal for the whole family, and they’ve all been excited over the last few weeks.”

Jennifer Lopez also has a close relationship with Violet and will undoubtedly miss spending time with Affleck’s oldest child.

Source: DailyMail.com, Fox News Digital, People